Just when you thought you had mastered the art of “ghosting” and “catfishing,” online dating is upending your understanding of modern dating lingo. Fortunately, Tinder’s 2025 Dating Dictionary is here to help decode the terms set to define the dating world over the next 12 months. Packed with over 50 terms gleaned from the Year In Swipe report, this dictionary captures the evolving language and trends spearheaded by Gen Z. Here are nine words you need to know if you hope to find love (or a hot hook up) this year.
D-AI-ting. Artificial intelligence inescapable. And online dating is no exception. D-AI-ting refers to the growing use of AI and algorithms in the matchmaking process. Whether it’s advanced personality matching or predictive analytics that can forecast compatibility, D-AI-ting is all about leveraging technology to enhance and streamline the dating experience. It’s a futuristic take on finding love in the digital age, and it’s becoming increasingly sophisticated and prevalent.
Nano-ships. Imagine celebrating those fleeting, intense sparks of connection instead of dismissing them. Nano-ships do just that. They acknowledge and appreciate even the smallest moments of mutual interest, whether it’s a shared look across a crowded room or a brief but impactful conversation. It’s all about cherishing those tiny sparks that could lead to something more or just be a beautiful, ephemeral connection.
Loud Looking. In a world where subtlety often reigns supreme, Loud Looking encourages daters to be bold, confident, and clear about their intentions. It’s the antithesis of playing it cool or hard-to-get. This trend celebrates honesty and directness, letting people know you’re interested without the games. Loud Looking embodies a refreshing approach to dating, one that values transparency and confidence.
The Snap Gap: Struggling to convince your bff that your swipe right is prettier than his pics? There’s now an official term designed to describe the process of showing off photos of your crush but insist: “They’re way better in person” – The Snap Gap!
Cherry Bombing. Love boming? So 2024! Instead, Dropping small, playful flirtations (aka cherry bombing) instead of going all out with grand romantic gestures. It’s all about those subtle sparks that keep things light and fun. The Cherry on top? “Thoughtful Gestures” ranks as the second most attractive “love style” in Tinder bios, according to users.
Groundhog Dating. One gals consistency, is another boring? In any instance groundhog dating is set to soar in 2025. That is, taking your dates to the same spot every time, sticking to familiar territory to keep those first-date jitters in check. It’s dating, but where everyone knows your name.
Hopecore. This trend all about embracing positivity and joy in dating and life. In fact, surveyed singles say that to stay energised and excited about dating, they try to stay positive (41%), have an open mind (39%), and remember to have fun (33%).
Phonezoned. So, you’re vibing on a date, but there’s a third-wheel stealing the spotlight. And it’s not a the glamorous Hailey-Bieber-esque babe taking your coffee orders. If you find your date distracted by their dial device, consider yourself “phonezoned
Flowmance. Finally, ever experienced a connection so smooth and natural that it felt like you were in a state of flow? That’s Flowmance. It’s when everything just clicks effortlessly between you and your date, from conversation to chemistry. A flowmance is marked by its easy-going nature and seamless interactions, making it feel as if you’ve known each other for ages, even if you’ve just met.
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